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Keep fighting back to escape to safety!
Sometimes, we can overthink technique when we consider our personal safety skills. Does it help to have a skills set to fall back on when someone grabs our wrist? Absolutely! But is that wrist grab escape essential for escaping a dangerous situation to safety? Perhaps not. An attacker has likely targeted someone because they are smaller or distracted - they don't look prepared to defend themselves. They are not expecting their intended victim to fight back! Anything w
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Mar 182 min read
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His fear wasn't paranoia: a Ukrainian boy and the fragile concept of safety
When I was traveling recently, a conversation with an airplane seatmate impacted my view of safety in a profound way. We started...
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Sep 30, 20252 min read
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There's no growth in our comfort zone!
When I was hammering out a workout on the Peleton today, the instructor said, "If you're feeling uncomfortable right now, that's okay. ...
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Jul 16, 20251 min read
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Strong ties between sexual assault & future substance abuse
When we think of the aftermath of sexual assault, we tend to think about physical and emotional trauma. We may consider the high...
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Jul 2, 20252 min read
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